Girl Talk

Woman: I sincerely appreciate your generosity and being a real friend. True friends are hard to come by.

Man: You're so welcome. I could make you such a happy woman.

HALT!!


This seems to be happening all too often! Most ladies do not ALWAYS have sex or monogamous relationships on the brain!

Warning: This is the new-age deception. The ladies need to wizen up, start becoming more intuitive with the sneaky ways men try to "ride and slide", to say it politely.

Men (and some women) always have an intention with almost any relation they become involved in. Let's be honest, being able to bake a mean batch of biscuits is not exactly a major attention magnet. Physical attraction is in most cases the culprit. The context in which one perceives this attraction is the issue.

Sex appeal: “The basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest.”

Arousing such interest, why not just be honest?! More respect will be given and the choice of accepting this offer will be made. You will either be rejected or accepted at that moment depending on the intention of the relationship and no ones precious time will be wasted.

It is possible for a completely platonic relationship between a man and a woman to take place. Yes, the “friend zone” does truly exist. There are men and women who genuinely have respect for one another and are grateful for the sincere advice they gain from the opposite sex.

All too often people become too comfortable too quick. Feeling suffocated in the beginning is never a pleasant feeling. We like to know that we are able to make our OWN decisions about the relationship. Never let yourself become vulnerable! You are showing the opposite sex that they CAN become comfortable at that point. Set boundaries, set limits. If you will not accept a certain behavior, speak up! Do not allow yourself be taken advantage of!

Take note: Uncontrollable sexual desires are a sign of weakness and a major turn off. Nothing ever comes from A to Z relationships. A to B your way through the beginning and let fate do the rest.